After what felt like hours lingering at the breakfast table, the girls finally set to work, opening presents. A good number were from John and I, but it was really nice to have so many gifts under the tree from family too, wrapping everybody into our Christmas celebration. The girls got lots of books and art supplies, movies, new figurines for their wonderful land of make believe. The big one for Audrey...the one I could tell she was waiting for...was the only thing she's really ever asked for as a gift. This is the first year she has voluntarily requested anything for Christmas: "A dog who can walk and talk, but isn't real. Who's white and has a leash." This might sound random, but her best friend back home has a FurReal dog (on a leash, who can be 'walked' around the house) and she wanted one too. Audrey got one strip of wrapping paper off the box, realized what was inside, shrieked in excitement, jumped up and down flapping her hands and then refused to take the rest of the paper off the box because she was so nervously excited.
Um, that dog was worth it.
And because Audrey got one, Bailey got a dog too. Her's doesn't walk (thank God!) but he does make noise--he came with a vet bag full of equipment to take care of him. He sneezes (good Lord!), barks and makes chewing noises when you feed him a bone. Pretty ridiculous stuff, but the girls love it, of course.
After all the gifts were unwrapped, several of them already busted open and being played with, John rolled out the big kahuna; the doll mansion that is taller than either of the girls. Obviously, much elation occurred...and thank goodness there was a place for all those new figurines to live. The girls haven't really stopped playing with their dollhouse since.
After dinner there were mincemeat tarts, fruitcake, Christmas cookies and marshmallows...and John trying to figure out how to video chat on his new iPad. We spent the evening watching new movies (Brave!) and chatting with family in between. It might not have been a traditional Christmas, but it was filled with new wonderful ways to celebrate together.
I struggled a lot this year with our seeming unchecked consumerism, feeling the need to teach my kids that it isn't all about presents--that the American ideal of excess is flawed. I might regret it some day, but this year we chose to sweep that all aside--to allow some excess and magic into our celebrating. We wanted the girls to have it at least this once, and especially while we are so far away from our family. It's indisputable that the magic of the day was palpable--one I hope our girls will be able to remember.


No comments:
Post a Comment